Understanding Domestic Violence – It’s Not Just Physical
First things first. Many people believe domestic violence is limited to beatings or physical abuse. That’s a myth.
Under The Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005, domestic violence includes:
Physical abuse (hitting, slapping, pushing)
Emotional and verbal abuse (insults, threats, humiliation)
Sexual abuse
Economic abuse (denying money, controlling earnings, restricting access to basic necessities)
Even threats to commit these actsThis law acknowledges that abuse isn't always visible. Mental trauma, financial control, and constant humiliation can be just as damaging as physical assault.
Who Can Seek Protection Under the Law?
The Act protects any woman who is, or has been, in a domestic relationship with the respondent (abuser). This includes:
Wives
Live-in partners
Mothers, sisters, widows
Women living in a joint family setupImportantly, the law doesn’t restrict protection only to married women. It covers relationships resembling marriage as well—an important recognition of changing social dynamics.
Legal Remedies Available to Victims
When a woman faces domestic violence, she doesn't have to suffer in silence. Here’s what the law offers:
A. Protection Orders
A court can restrain the abuser from committing any act of domestic violence, contacting the victim, or even entering the shared household.
B. Residence Orders
A woman cannot be thrown out of her own house. Courts can pass orders to ensure she stays in the shared household, or is provided alternative accommodation.
C. Monetary Relief
This includes maintenance, medical expenses, and loss of earnings due to violence or abuse.
D. Custody Orders
Temporary custody of children can be granted to the woman if it's in the child’s best interest.
E. Compensation Orders
For emotional distress and trauma, victims can claim compensation as the court deems fit.
How to Seek Help – Step-by-Step
If you or someone you know is facing domestic violence, here’s what can be done:
Approach a Protection Officer (appointed under the DV Act) or the nearest police station.
You can also approach NGOs, women’s helplines, or a lawyer for assistance.
File an application under Section 12 of the DV Act in the local Magistrate’s Court.
Urgent situations? File an FIR under relevant sections of the Indian Penal Code (e.g., Section 498A for cruelty).Remember: You don’t have to leave your home to seek protection. The law allows you to stay while ensuring your safety.
Common Misconceptions I’ve Seen Over the Years
Having practiced law for decades in Ludhiana courts, I’ve heard many myths:
“What will people say?” → Trust me, society won’t suffer, but you will, if you stay silent.
“The court process is too long” → Reliefs like protection and residence orders can be granted swiftly.
“Only big cities offer legal support” → Even district courts in smaller towns actively entertain these matters, and support services are expanding every day.Conclusion: Your Silence Shouldn’t Be Your Sentence
The law is clear. Domestic violence is not a “family matter” to be hidden behind closed doors—it’s a crime, and there is no shame in standing up against it. If you are a victim, or if someone confides in you about their suffering, encourage them to act.
Over the years, I’ve seen women transform their lives by choosing to speak up—and I assure you, help is available, both in the law books and in the hearts of those willing to fight for justice.
Takeaway:
You don’t have to suffer in silence. The law is on your side. If you're facing domestic violence, speak up and seek legal help—your dignity and safety matter.Stay safe,
Facing Domestic Violence? Here's How the Law Can Protect YouBy Adv. Raj Kumar Bhandari, Senior Advocate, Ludhiana
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